Continuing our series on Compassionate Leadership, our expert guest Manley Hopkinson explores power and, or perhaps versus, influence.
It follows perfectly on from the last episode in which we discussed the difference and the merits of committed as opposed to compliant teams.
Firstly Manley reviews our answers to the 3 questions he set as our home-play at the end of the last episode. He interprets our responses to demonstrate how they reveal our individual needs. These findings would give any leader a huge clue how to engage and motivate us, making us feel special and committed to the task at hand. Fascinating stuff.
Equally enlightening is Manley's explanation of the 5 bases of power, as identified by two eminent social psychologists back in the 50s, French and Raven. Each type is easily recognised thanks to Manley's illustrations, including for the Expert base a reference to an old war movie Flight of the Phoenix. See links below on how to view it.
So is it true that a leader gets the team he or she deserves? Tune in and find out.
Oh, and don't forget this week's home-play. Manley strongly suggests you reflect on a relationship where you're struggling to influence, either at home or work. Park your ego then ask yourself:
- what power base have I earned?
- what power base has that person given me?
And if the answer is none, what power base could I gain?
This exercise is especially relevant if you're wishing to influence teenagers, says Manley!
Enjoy and thank ewe for listening :-)
Helpful links:
Manley's website - portal for the Compassionate Leadership Academy and to book him as a speaker
Flight of the Phoenix film - the original 1965 version on YouTube or the 2004 re-make on Disney+
Sheep, Shepherd or Dog - which one are ewe? Take our personality quiz and find out.
Connect with the speakers via LinkedIn:
Caroline Palmer - Top Dog and co-founder, Raising the Baa
Chris Farnsworth - Head Shepherd and co-founder, Raising the Baa & author of 'Sheep Shepherd Dog - Building a Magnificent Team Around You'
Manley Hopkinson - author, adventurer, senior business advisor, professional speaker and founder of the Compassionate Leadership Academy
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